Oh yeah, I'm not upset about this spoiler at all, it was more I'm wanting to not know things like if they've cast someone to play Lucifer. I don't care WHO they've cast to play the role, it's someone confirming that there is a specific role to PLAY that bothers me. (like, as you say, the long-lost-brother) Or something like finding out if someone who might be dead is or isn't in a coming season/episode. Don't apologise about that though! I'm GLAD I found out because everyone was talking about it so much I was going crazy with curiosity. And to be honest, that's not really something I think needs to go behind a cut. It doesn't reveal anything about the story itself.

i can't help but feel a little sorry for people who don't want to be spoiled who go to conventions and get spoiled
You can't spoiler-cut conventions! It's so true! Jared and Jensen are usually pretty good about it, but I think the writers are a little more like, 'well, if they've come to a writers panel then they probably want to know stuff about the writing of the show.... which includes the next season.' Which is why I haven't watched any of the panels. :/

Gosh I found that movie depressing and pointless. :/

I seeee. Everything has to be written for children these days! Like my old job's manual that stipulated I wasn't to sit on the floor or the rubbish bin. Thanks guys, really obvious, but just in case I needed clarification....