That's really good advice, and now that I've heard from both of them I think I just need to step back and let them sort things out for themselves. You're right about the tools, all the helpful advice in the world isn't going to do anything if they're not interested in hearing it, and it's best not to come from me anyway.

I know, it just kind of seems STUPID to break up after 36 years. It's like, don't you REALISE how nice it is to have a partner? Apparently my Dad's sister said to him, "Love? Love! I haven't been in love for 20 years!" (She's been in a relationship now for about 4 years XD) Getting some flatmates doesn't really compare!

-_-;;; the specialist! But seriously, thanks heaps, that's really good solid advice.

Yus! You actually are already nominally on my photo-wall, but I'm not going to tell you how you'll have to see for yourself. Video-blog could happen! I'd just have to like... put a bag over my head. But that would kind of be AWESOME.