I can only read chan in really really specific circumstances like when the characters aren't human or something. I have friends who were sexually abused and I just don't think that anyone who says they 'love' someone would take advantage of their innocence. (AH! I must cut off this potentially huge rant now!) For me fandom Harry and canon Harry are totally two different characters so I can mould fandom-Harry to any of my perverted whims with no worries. I just get annoyed when people use pictures of the _real_ people who play the fictional characters, and put them in sexual poses or whatever, because irrespective of legal-age etc, that's not something the actor agreed to and it's unfair.
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But that's just what I think. :/